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Dear Aditi,

All your childhood you have been so insecure about how you look , how you act and what not. You literally used to hate getting clicked.  You’ve been a clumsy , misfit girl who was never ready to take a stand for herself, never ready to face the world.  Everything you used to do seemed to be error prone to yourself. You have been a total mess inside out. GET OVER YOURSELF , GET OVER YOUR INSECURITIES.

One step at a time, that’s how you had begin, right? The best thing that you have actually realized all this while is that no size is perfect, be it fat or too slim, you just need to be comfortable in your skin, feel healthy inside. Nobody even knew that you would choose to be a part of fashion industry, get into a designing college and start blogging. You should be proud of yourself that you made a decision to drop a stream you didn’t belong to. Yes nobody knew about the sleepless nights you  had when you were struggling but nobody even knew how happy you were when you  actually made a decision for yourself. It has been a struggle for you to convince your family for you to wanted to do and  you are doing until you realized that they will be the one to pat your back when you will have a success story. It has always been a struggle for you to enjoy the body type you have, to love yourself, to actually take brave steps and be what you are TODAY ! Remember  yourself crying out loud in front of the mirror ? Remember yourself struggling through your looks? Now is the time for you to stand out , be yourself. Now you’re independent, yes , YOU gotta do things for yourself. You don’t need anybody’s approval to be yourself and just how you are responsible for what you do, you should be the one to approve your choices. That’ll make you different from others.

Don’t give anybody the power to make you sad , feel demotivated or embarrassed. Don’t give them the power to change you. They are nobody to tell you the right way of doing anything. It’s you who will discover ways of doing things, way of wearing clothes. Embrace that fat, those stretch marks , black heads , faults and everything else. Has any one ever told you to love the patches on your skin, Just how they have told you that dimples are the only default to be loved? I am sure,NOT ! Do not give anybody the right to pass on comment on who you are !! Don’t let that affect you. Rather watch out for people who would not judge you on any grounds. Stop trying to look perfect, behave perfect, and be someone which will make others happy. Sweetheart , when will you do something for yourself ? It’s okay for you to make mistakes, fall down and hustle hard. But don’t forget to rise everytime you fall and don’t give up, keep trying. Some fine day things will be in your favor and then, when you will look back, so proud of your journey , that would be the day when people will remember you.

Your insecurities won’t define you, The way you tackle them will. Use them to mould yourself into a whole new beautiful individual. Rise above them. Get so involved in your work that you don’t even have time to look at the haters. But yes, criticism is also important for you to achieve something in life. It will help you grow. The success and achievements today shall not be taken for granted . EVOLVE ! Everyday is a new chance given to you. You still have a long way to go girl ! All struggle stories, make each of them count. You are one of a kind.

Conquer the  world with your smile. You totally got this !

XOXO

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